2 years ago my girlfriend fell ill and we had to start some loans to pay off our loan for the home , car etc

im a young guy (30m) from belgium , i didnt really had a good youth because my mother was a alcholic and my father passed away when i was younger

i didnt finish my school because i had to take care of my sister and older brother because my mother would like her local pub more then her childeren … so with that in mind i didnt had a degree in anything but stil i managed to get to school when i was a little older and got to meet my gf

she’s a teacher and honestly the reason why i keep on going !

after 5 years we managed to get a loan (becasue of hard work ,no hand outs )

and have paid monthly now after 2 years my gf began to have seizure’s on her job and was fired because of it … to make matters worse she fell ill and had to be hospitalized and everything fell on my pay ( isnt much ) i dont blame her but we had to take a loan to pay off

she’s on the better hand right now but we have to rebuild everything and with all those loans it seems impossible … to be honest im on the verge of a depression

we have eachother but building towards a future seems so far away so if u can… please help us out 20 000 isnt the whole loan but it makes life a little easier

sorry for my bad english but im trying to find a solution to our problem because we want to build a future and just be happy !