The widower's penny - bit by bit for the Pârvu family!
The widower's penny - bit by bit for the Pârvu family!
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Original Romanian text translated into English
Original Romanian text translated into English
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So far, €6200 has been raised from your donations and it seems that for almost a week now there have been no new donors and most likely there will not be any more. We are still relying mainly on those who have ticked off recurring donations and there are 112 of them. The hard situation of the Pârvu family has only just begun, when not only the donations have ceased but also the attention they received in the beginning, the physical help of friends. Your money has been used to buy necessary household appliances (vacuum cleaner, fruit juicer, etc.), a lady is employed in the house for daily practical help, with a labour contract... about 4000 lei net/month, the bills, instalments, school supplies and all the food and childcare expenses are paid. There is still much to do, much to repair, much to buy... Your support counts a lot in the coming year... I spoke to Constantine on the phone days this week and he's physically overwhelmed. Money doesn't bring him the comfort that no amount of money can compensate for, but the fact that he sees his family, his children, without material deprivation certainly has a positive effect! Another positive effect is that it brings joy to Fr Constantine and his children when they see that they can, in turn, help others around them with what they receive. Food and clothes are often delivered onwards with the help of friends who sort and transport what is superfluous to other families. I'll try to recount what happens with your pennies about once a month, in as much detail as possible.
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Description
On 30 December 2024, an ambulance was leaving from the County Emergency Hospital in Pitesti to the University Emergency Hospital in Bucharest. In the ambulance was Ilina Pârvu, a 35-year-old woman from the village of Florieni - Argeș, mother of 5 children and seven months pregnant, in a critical condition with bronchopneumonia.
On arrival at the hospital, she was intubated and entered the operating theatre for an emergency caesarean section. The baby - a girl, Ioana-Ilina - was saved. But on 4 January 2025, the mother - weakened by the disease and the surgery - gave up. The doctors failed to resuscitate her for the third time.
Cosmin Pârvu, Ilina's husband, was left alone with their six children and a caseload of worries and projects that the couple had shouldered together, working from morning till night:
Raising and educating the little ones.
Cleaning and cooking.
Expanding the house with a new room for the children.
The new well, because the old well has dried up and the village is not connected to water.
(Florieni, the isolated village on one side of the Transfăgărășan, has a population of 45, mostly elderly. The Pârvu family moved here in 2018 to support the locals and keep local traditions alive. Cosmin is a deacon and Ilina was a theatre lighting engineer).
We believe that this burden can only be carried together, by the whole community, if people like you, with kind hearts, give the Pârvu family a monthly, recurring donation, however small.
Penny by penny, month by month, we hope that your donations will help ensure that everything is not lost with the loss of Ilina.
Teodora (11 years), Nicolae (9 years), Natalia (6 years), Paisie (4 years), Varvara (2 years) and Ioana-Ilina (still in the incubator at the time of this campaign) thank you in advance.
How does a recurring donation work?
Basically, it's a subscription to the hard-pressed family's rescue, whereby a sum of money is sent directly to them once a month. You decide the amount and the duration of the 'subscription' (and you can change it whenever you want). It's a completely secure transaction via PayU - just like letting them take money off your card every month for your phone bill or TV subscription. Just follow the steps on this page and fill in your card details once. After that, everything works by itself without any hassle.
VERY IMPORTANT - In order for your donation to be recurring, i.e. month by month, you need to tick this option in the form on this website. Otherwise, your donation will only be made once! You must also tick the donation in EURO (even if you don't have a EURO account, the conversion is done automatically - you don't need to have a EURO account to be able to make a recurring donation).
Alternatively, you can set the amount you wish to donate monthly to the Pârvu family directly from the banking app on your mobile phone using the IBAN below.
Priorities:
As written above, the priorities are:
- The long-term employment of a hard-working and reliable person to help Cosmin on a daily basis with the upkeep of the household (cleaning, eating, looking after the children);
- erecting a building between the two existing small buildings to provide thermal comfort and extend the living space for the children;
- digging a borehole to provide running water. The existing well has dried up due to the drought of recent years and the hamlet where I live is not connected to the public water network;
- to cover the necessary expenses for the children's education and harmonious development.
Who are we, the fundraising organisers?
We are friends of Ilina and Cosmin-Constantin. We have known them for years (some for 15 years). We live in the same neighbourhood and our children often play together. We are close to the Pârvu family, we know their needs and we try to make a shield around them. That's why we are asking for your help, as quickly and as sustained as possible. By making a recurring monthly payment of a small amount, we are preventing them from being forgotten, we are making sure that even if the dust settles on this story, the dust does not scatter a marvellous family.
All money from donations is transferred to the account of Constatin-Cosmin Pârvu:
IBAN: RO28INGB000000009999990990363675931
Account Holder: Constantin Cosmin Pârvu
Bank: INGB CENTRAL
Currency: RON
SWIFT/BIC Code: INGBROBU
Questions, suggestions or ideas:
For questions, proposals or ideas, you can comment directly below on this page, at [email protected] or, more simply, on the Whatsapp group created especially for this cause -https://chat.whatsapp.com/DSZI6RdkTmB5I7nYRTinB7 - where we will keep you updated on how things are going and what needs to be done next.
Please pass it on as soon as possible and to as many people as possible!
Attention! If the impact will be as great as we hope, after covering the urgent needs of the Pârvu family, the funds raised will be the basis of a future entity, "ILINA PÂRVU FOUNDATION" which will aim to support orphaned or needy children in Arges and other social cases.
Thank you for your help and may God reward your good deed!
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Vegheaza-i de Sus, Ilina si apara-i pe pruncutii tai! Iar noi, mamele de aici, de pe pamant sa facem scut in jurul lor si sa ii crestem mari!
Sus inima!
Donatie pentru Copii! Doamne Ajuta!
AMIN!