42 years of pain ‑ all I want is just to live a normal life
42 years of pain ‑ all I want is just to live a normal life
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Hello,
I’m a father, a husband, and a man who has lived with a serious medical condition for over 42 years, starting from when I was just a baby.
📍 How it all began
At the age of 1, I was placed in daycare while my mother returned to work. There, I fell from a crib and hit my head. Months later, I began having severe episodes – loss of consciousness, seizures, vomiting.
Brain scans revealed that the right side of my brain wasn’t developing like the left. Since then, these episodes became a lifelong burden.
⚕️ My long fight
Doctors in my home country refused to adjust my therapy – even though my body became immune to the medications. I was stuck for years in a system that couldn’t help me.
With my wife and two children, I moved to Germany, hoping for real treatment.
Shortly after moving, I suffered the worst seizure of my life – I ended up in a coma for 30 days. Without German health insurance, I was treated in a private clinic, and barely survived.
When I woke up, I couldn’t walk – my wife cared for me completely, while we tried to stay afloat financially.
💰 The debt and hope
All treatments, hospital stays, scans, translations, and medications led to a debt of 5,000 €. I’m now being treated at KEH Hospital, where they are preparing for a brain procedure (using a camera through a small incision) to find a lasting solution.
🙏 I’m asking for help…
I don’t write this as a victim. I write this as a man who just wants to be there for his kids – standing, strong, and healthy.
I can’t bear for them to watch me collapse again and again.
My goal is to raise for:
unpaid medical bills
daily medication (until I get insured)
and the upcoming diagnostic brain operation.
If you can donate, or just share this story – you’re giving me a second chance.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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